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RLT - couples therapy that works!

RLT  stands for Relational Life Therapy, developed by Terry Real. RLT as couple therapy considers both the problem areas of your relationship behaviour as well as the problems in connection with your family of origin.  On top, RLT teaches invaluable relationship skills.  

RLT as couples therapy will teach you:

  • How to end the cycle of arguments and/or distancing

  • How to increase intimacy and closeness

  • How to get what you need and want in a healthy way

  • How to deal with infidelity and trust issues

  • Skills that increase your awareness of yourself and your relationship

  • Skills that  strengthen your relationship and make it great

We all deserve a healthy, happy relationship! If that's what you're looking for, here's my suggestion: You only pay for the first session if you are fully satisfied. If not, you don't pay a cent. Click the button now to make an appointment. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Verliebtes Pärchen

"Love is not for the faint of heart."

 

TerryReal 

LiveLoveShine gründet auf dem deutschen Vereinsrecht, und für die Dauer der Nutzung dieses Angebots agieren wir im Rahmen des Vereins KRD. Es entstehen dadurch keine weiteren Rechte oder Pflichten für dich. Danke, dass du da bist und dich für Wachstum und Transformation interessierst.   

Warum KRD? Du findest die Antwort hier.

Glückliche Paare in der Küche

"...the most reliable predictor of long-term marital success was a pattern in which the wives, in nonoffensive, clear ways, communicated their needs, and husbands willingly altered their behaviours to meet them." 

TerryReal

Who is RLT for?

RLT is for you if you really want to get to the bottom of your problems and then work on implementing change, carried by the spirit of your desires rather than just talking about your problems. Using techniques from Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach developed by Terry Real, a couple is guided with exceptional precision to the "next step" to realise their full potential. This work is for any couple that is interested in improving their relationship and learning how to live a more relational life. The themes can range from a good relationship that wants to get even richer and more vibrant to a relationship that is on the brink of divorce - and everything in between. RLT has a reputation for getting to the heart of the matter quickly and thoroughly. RLT is different from other forms of couples work in that it not only teaches the healthy and important relationship skills, but directly targets the behaviours and underlying reasons that cause the problems to arise in the first place.

 

RLT is also known for working with individuals, families and couples that no one else could help, because it is so effective. Honesty and an open heart are all that is required. Curious? Okay, here's my suggestion: You only pay for the first session if you are fully satisfied. If not, you don't pay a cent. Click the button now to make an appointment. See you soon!

Für wen ist RLT

We would like to point out that for the duration of the business relationship (initiation, conclusion, delivery, invoicing, payment) including a possible warranty period, you have a temporary affiliation with the common welfare state Kingdom of Germany (KRD). You use the constitution, the laws and the jurisdiction of the KRD, which you have to choose first in legal disputes. There are no further rights, obligations or costs

Family of origin & dealing with old injuries

We are all products of our upbringing. You know the saying, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, right? It is true for many couples that sooner or later we will become like our parents, whether we want to or not. The family dynamics into which we were born, the example set by our parents, and our early experiences in the family of origin contribute a great deal to our dysfunctional relationship patterns and behaviours today. That's no shame. We only know what we know. We're just doing what we've learned. But you and your partner come into relationship therapy to learn a new way of relating. This requires the help of the counselor, who guides you and your partner to recognise how your family of origin and that of your partner influences your relationship today. RLT couples therapy will guide you through your birth family in a sensitive and caring way to see where your relationship behaviours are causing your problems. We have all been hurt in the past. Some of these hurts were caused by your current relationship, and some of them happened long before you met your partner. RLT will help you grow and heal from your past painful experiences of hurt, loss, abandonment and pain so that you can transform your marriage or relationship and make it what it is rightfully yours! Make an appointment with me. And here's my offer: You only pay for the first session if you are fully satisfied. If not, you don't pay a cent. Click the button now to make an appointment. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Kissng the Newborn

"The romantic vision promises 'shadowless' relationships, but it is precisely by wrestling with the relationship's shadow, with disillusionment, that deep intimacy is sustained." 

TerryReal

We would like to point out that for the duration of the business relationship (initiation, conclusion, delivery, invoicing, payment) including a possible warranty period, you have a temporary affiliation with the common welfare state Kingdom of Germany (KRD). You use the constitution, the laws and the jurisdiction of the KRD, which you have to choose first in legal disputes. There are no further rights, obligations or costs

Vintage Wedding

"The flight from shame into grandiosity lies at the heart of male covered depression." 

TerryReal

Partners who don't like to talk about their feelings

Couples therapy may seem intimidating for men, but both men and women can have trouble recognizing the feelings they are experiencing. Not feeling, or not knowing what you are feeling, usually leads to being perceived as not "present" as a partner. RLT is an effective couples therapy approach that can help men and women learn how to be more emotionally accessible and present in their partnership. Because RLT is truthful and direct, it can be especially helpful for those who are not particularly emotionally expressive. Many of my clients appreciate this realistic, direct and at the same time understanding and compassionate approach to therapy. This is especially true for those struggling to connect emotionally with their partners and family. We all want to be heard, loved and respected for who we are. So often my clients talk about not wanting to be "turned into someone else". RLT respects each partner for their personality and who they are as a person. And at the same time, RLT encourages everyone to be "more" of what they are, ie, to highlight the very qualities that made your partner fall in love with you in the first place. Do not hesitate. Sign up today for a your first session. And here's my offer: You only pay for the first session if you are fully satisfied. If not, you don't pay a cent. Click the button now to make an appointment. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

We would like to point out that for the duration of the business relationship (initiation, conclusion, delivery, invoicing, payment) including a possible warranty period, you have a temporary affiliation with the common welfare state Kingdom of Germany (KRD). You use the constitution, the laws and the jurisdiction of the KRD, which you have to choose first in legal disputes. There are no further rights, obligations or costs

Wer ist Terry Real
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"Nothing is as important in our lives as our relationships. A great relationship strengthens your immune system, opens your heart and keeps you energetic and creative."

TerryReal

Who is Terry Real

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) was developed by Terry Real. Terry is an internationally recognised family therapist, speaker, and author. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute (RLI), which offers workshops for couples, individuals and parents across the US, as well as a professional training program for therapists and counselors who want to learn his RLT (Relational Life Therapy) method. A family therapist and teacher for more than twenty-five years, Terry is the bestselling author of I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression (Scribner, 1997), the straight-forward How Can I Get Through to you? Reconnecting Men and Women (Scribner, 2002) and most recently The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work (Random House). 

RLT, with its rigorous, no-nonsense approach, appeals to both men and women. Terry's ideas on men's issues and couples therapy have been celebrated on shows such as Good Morning America, The Today Show and 20/20, Oprah and the New York Times. A proponent of "full throttle marriage" as described in his book The Rules of Marriage, Terry has been called "the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today".  In his latest work, Fierce Intimacy: Standing Up to One Another with Love, Terry offers a revolutionary way to be connected - one that allows you to value your partner, yourself and your relationship equally.

We would like to point out that for the duration of the business relationship (initiation, conclusion, delivery, invoicing, payment) including a possible warranty period, you have a temporary affiliation with the common welfare state Kingdom of Germany (KRD). You use the constitution, the laws and the jurisdiction of the KRD, which you have to choose first in legal disputes. There are no further rights, obligations or costs

Relationship coaching for individuals

Relationship is one of the most beautiful and yet one of the most difficult things in life. We manage it somehow, but very few can MASTER it. Wouldn't it be nice if it was  easier? 

Inner Man Inner Woman

In this session, we work with anima and animus. Every woman has an inner man (animus), and every man has an inner woman (anima). Working with those parts within we can solve many relationship problems.

why work with me

Good question. Find the answer yourself. Get to know me. Get a feel if we might be a good fit for each other. That's important. Because if you don't feel comfortable it won't work. So check me out and be sure I'm right for you. 

A happy relationship is no coincidence

My main focus is to walk with you on your way to making your relationship great (again). I want all your relationships, be it with your beloved, with yourself, with your kids, friends and colleagues become great and fulfilling (again).

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